Mostly that’s by addressing leadership issues, but sometimes I address the issues dealing with relationships – families – marriage – children. Even though I have a degree in counseling, this is simply a blog where I want to help people. Thankfully, they’re in a great season to ask hard questions – learn valuable lessons – and strengthen the marriage. There’s a great chance she has questions about the relationship also. It didn’t take long before I realized, however, this marriage is heading for disaster if they don’t address their issues soon. I was proud of him for being humble enough to ask if this was normal in a marriage. And he’s withdrawn to the point that he was willing to admit his hurt – which is difficult for any man to do. He even recognizes his reaction as a defense mechanism. Over the course of the last few months he’s began to realize how many things his wife is saying and doing that are causing him to pull away from her. Plus, we often injure most those we love the most.
Marriages are made of two very different, imperfect people. (Make sure you read the companion post to this one about how the husband injures the wife.) And he doesn’t even know he’s doing it to her.
Sometimes those are the worst kind of hurts.Īnd she – most likely – doesn’t even know she’s doing it.
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